I try and find people that understand the following:
These are not really meeting rules but more life principals I aspire to live by.

Don’t argue in a rude and obnoxious manner.

Don’t say you are going to do something and not do it.

Care about others and not just yourself. Listen to others and don’t monopolize conversations. Take a sincere interest in other people.

Do what you can to make people feel comfortable.

Try and give more than you take in life.

Keep gossip to a minimum.

Introduce other nice people to be interviewed for joining.

Being crude is ok, but don’t go overboard.